New Beginnings – Real and Premature
For over 12 months now, we’ve lived with global change due to COVID-19, and we have all responded to it with the typical human response to change.
Read MoreThe Catalyst and Hope of Change
“Life is a journey, not a destination.” Ralph Waldo Emerson.
Gary explores the concepts of change and transition with the overlay of COVID-19
COVID and the Change Crisis
Heraclitus said, “There is nothing permanent except change.”
Read MoreLeadership Development – Followers Are Not Clones
During my consulting career in corporate America, one of the services I frequently provided was the creation of a Position Portrait. This document contained a list of the behavioral skills that a person needed to be able to perform to be successful in the employment position described.
Just Say No to New Year’s Resolutions!
We love New Year’s Resolutions, making them, breaking them, and making fun of them (it’s the number one subject of the first Sunday comic section of the New Year). Anything but keeping them! Research suggests that about 45% of people in the United States make New Year’s resolutions and 75% of them keep them going through the first week of January (that would get you a C in school!) 46% make it six months, which is pretty impressive given that first week failure rate, but only 8% last the whole year. Not a very good showing.
Why Business Partners Don’t Like Meetings and the Consequences
It is not surprising that meetings have a bad name among business partners and in businesses in general. Much too often, not a lot gets accomplished. They are boring, time consuming and sometimes emotions take over when disagreements come up. And yet, as a coach to businesses I insist that partners meet on a regular schedule and also with their teams.
Who Are You? It’s a Question of Consciousness
I have always been fascinated by the intersection of science and spirituality. Not in the way the two clash as in the vitriolic, polarizing, and often political right/wrong arguments over evolution v. creationism, but in the way they come together like in Deepak Chopra’s book The Tao of Physics or the popular film from 2004 What The Bleep Do We Know? I recently had another experience that brought these two seemingly different worlds more closely together.
Relationships and Marriage: A Perceptual Styles Perspective, Part 2
A question that we usually get during most of our seminars deals with the applicability of the Perceptual Styles Theory to finding the "perfect mate". While there is no one factor or theory that can fully explain why, how, and with whom we fall in love, but the Perceptual Styles Theory (PST) can help individuals understand the challenges we’re likely to face in different types of relationships. This perspective can be invaluable in predicting communication issues, and in smoothing out issues when they do arise.
Transforming a One-Way Conversation With Love
Have you ever been in one of those social situations in which the conversation is all in one direction? You know what I mean, the people you are talking to all focus on telling you about them and their lives, ask you nothing about you and your life, and generally show little or no interest in anything you have to say.
Relationships and Marriage: A Perceptual Styles Perspective
The Perceptual Styles Theory (PST) describes six distinct ways that different people see the world, what they value, and how they communicate, so—as one of the originators of this psychological theory—it’s only natural that people often ask me which style would make the best match for them in a romantic relationship.